Why do people grow apart?
Is it fate? The old "nothing lasts forever" clause coming back to bite us in the ass? Or is it consequential; friends grow and friends change and sometimes two people just don't have that buzz anymore. My head chooses the former, but I think my heart takes a deep, albeit unfortunate, drop to the latter. I'm experiencing this with one or two of people now, and it is certainly the cause of alot of my anxiety and grief.
I have one VERY wise friend who says "People don't change, they just become who they are". And you know what? The girl is right. And I have SOOO much admiration for her. Whatever happens she never disrespects herself and stands by her values with dignity and grace. I find that inspirational. I've learnt alot from this person, especially over the last 12 months and for that I am very thankful.
I have another friend who is very similar. She's been through it ALL (and I mean everything) and yet I have NEVER seen her cry. This person makes me laugh every day, and to her I am incredibly thankful.
Both of these are girls....
Hmm I really need to hang out with guys more....
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